August 16, 2020
The Goal which Precedes the Goal
All of this sounds beautiful and poetic, but I bet you don’t care if you are unsure how to begin. Take these as ways to get you headed in the right direction:
- Always begin with the bare minimum. You think it’s a good idea to go all in? How has that been working for you? Have you stuck to your plan? In most cases, my clients have not been successful with trying to do a complete overhaul. Why? Because they already have habits that counter their ideal and some of them are attached to a lot of emotions. Maybe going all in made them feel good for a couple of days or even a couple of weeks. Then, something undesirable would happen in their lives. Things would get stressful. Resistance would set in. The brain and body would then do what it’s supposed to do, minimize stress and resistance to get you back to homeostasis.
- Always master the foundations. Don’t make things harder for yourself by rushing for the sake of progression. Making your body do things that it just isn’t prepared to do will only cause frustration at the very least, and with unnecessary frustration you are more likely to quit.
- Make the next step the tiniest step that will still yield a result. See the explanation of point 2.
- Replace useless phrases, like “I don’t know.” They do not help you move forward. In fact, they keep you stagnant. In the age of Google, there is no excuse to not know something. Ask questions, get answers, or explore on your own. Instead of saying “I don’t know,” try saying, “I will have to figure it out.”
- Raise your discomfort tolerance. Actively practice doing things that are uncomfortable. Just the way you would do reps under the bar, do reps out in life. Challenge your mind and your body will have more capacity for growth.
- Incorporate rituals. When things become automatic, there is very little resistance to work through. Actions become automatic when they are habitual. Habits are programmed through repetition. Create a clear routine for yourself before you hit the gym or before your meal prep. Make it something that makes you feel good. Do it every time. The more those neuropathways get engraved, the less you will struggle to complete the task.
- Rest. If you aren’t resting, then your central nervous system will become eggs over hard. Don’t give your brain any more reason to be a grumpy teenager than it has to. Let it recover and let it have calm. Your future bad ass goal crushing self will thank you.
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